{"id":744,"date":"2021-08-25T14:04:18","date_gmt":"2021-08-25T12:04:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/?p=744"},"modified":"2021-09-26T21:42:57","modified_gmt":"2021-09-26T19:42:57","slug":"co-se-stane-pokud-ve-vychove-obcas-porusite-pravidla","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/?p=744","title":{"rendered":"Co se stane, pokud ve v\u00fdchov\u011b ob\u010das poru\u0161\u00edte pravidla"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A\u010dkoliv by ve v\u00fdchov\u011b m\u011bla platit jasn\u00e1 pravidla, jednou za \u010das jejich poru\u0161it v\u016fbec nen\u00ed na \u0161kodu, naopak. Nebojte se ob\u010das dovolit \u0161kol\u00e1kovi d\u00edvat ve\u010der fotbal, koupit mu trojitou zmrzlinu p\u0159ed j\u00eddlem \u010di p\u0159iv\u0159\u00edt o\u010di nad \u0161\u00edlen\u00fdm \u00fa\u010desem va\u0161\u00ed teenagerky. V\u00fdjimky, ale opravdu v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9 a vhodn\u011b na\u010dasovan\u00e9, maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Facebook<br>Dovolit d\u011btem jednou za \u010das to, co byste jim za norm\u00e1ln\u00edch okolnost\u00ed nedovolili, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt za ur\u010dit\u00fdch okolnost\u00ed ve v\u00fdchov\u011b velmi p\u0159\u00ednosn\u00e9 pro celou rodinu. Foto: Shutterstock.com<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8222;Ve v\u00fdchov\u011b je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1 z\u00e1sadovost, jasnost a p\u0159edv\u00eddatelnost, kter\u00e1 d\u00edt\u011b ukotvuje a d\u00e1v\u00e1 mu pocit bezpe\u010d\u00ed. Ale to neznamen\u00e1, \u017ee vybran\u00e9 v\u00fdjimky, jednou za \u010das, by byly chybou, &#8222;\u0159\u00edk\u00e1 psycholo\u017eka Dana Comas z Alma centra pro zdrav\u00fd v\u00fdvin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chv\u00edle, kter\u00e9 se vymykaj\u00ed ka\u017edodenn\u00ed rutin\u011b, z\u016fst\u00e1vaj\u00ed podle n\u00ed zapsan\u00e9 v pam\u011bti d\u011bt\u00ed jako v\u00fdrazn\u00e9 vzpom\u00ednky a maj\u00ed pro n\u011b velmi siln\u00fd emocion\u00e1ln\u00ed n\u00e1boj. &#8222;Ukazuj\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bti, \u017ee i rodi\u010d um\u00ed b\u00fdt n\u011bkdy spont\u00e1nn\u00ed, \u017ee ne ve v\u0161em a v\u017edy mus\u00edme b\u00fdt rigidn\u00ed,&#8220; up\u0159es\u0148uje s t\u00edm, \u017ee takov\u00e9 vybo\u010den\u00ed z pravidel m\u016f\u017ee zlep\u0161it vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd vztah d\u011bt\u00ed a rodi\u010d\u016f, spole\u010dn\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek jejich sbl\u00ed\u017e\u00ed a propoj\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Plat\u00ed to i pro n\u011bkter\u00e9 na prvn\u00ed pohled negativn\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitky, kdy\u017e se nap\u0159\u00edklad vr\u00e1t\u00edte dom\u016f hladov\u00ed a p\u0159i pr\u00e1zdn\u00e9 chladni\u010dce mus\u00edte z minima z\u00e1sob narychlo improvizovat, kdy\u017e mus\u00edte n\u011bkde velmi dlouho \u010dekat, p\u0159\u00edpadn\u011b kdy\u017e se na turistice nachod\u00edte v\u00edce ne\u017e jste p\u016fvodn\u011b o\u010dek\u00e1vali. &#8222;I tyto v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9 situace ale mohou b\u00fdt p\u0159\u00ednosem. U\u010d\u00ed d\u00edt\u011b flexibilit\u011b, zvl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed frustrace, mohou napomoci tomu, aby si um\u011blo l\u00e9pe p\u0159edstavit pocity druh\u00fdch lid\u00ed, &#8222;vysv\u011btluje Dana Comas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V takov\u00fdch p\u0159\u00edpadech je v\u0161ak velmi d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstup a p\u0159\u00edklad rodi\u010de, jak tyto nekomfortn\u00ed situace zvl\u00e1d\u00e1. &#8222;Pokud rodi\u010d po dlouh\u00e9 a \u00fanavn\u00e9 t\u00fa\u0159e d\u00edt\u011b ocen\u00ed (m\u00edsto toho aby si st\u011b\u017eoval, \u017ee frflalo), pos\u00edl\u00ed jeho sebev\u011bdom\u00ed, utvrd\u00ed vz\u00e1jemn\u00fd vztah a u\u010d\u00ed ho, \u017ee i kdy\u017e je n\u011bco n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00e9 a nekomfortn\u00ed, m\u016f\u017eeme m\u00edt z toho nakonec p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00fd z\u00e1\u017eitek,&#8220; p\u0159ibli\u017euje psycholo\u017eka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">V\u00fdjimky z ka\u017edodenn\u00edch pravidel by v\u0161ak m\u011bly b\u00fdt spr\u00e1vn\u011b na\u010dasovan\u00e9. Tedy t\u0159eba db\u00e1t na to, aby nezas\u00e1hly fyzick\u00e9 \u010di psychick\u00e9 zdrav\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte a aby jimi rodi\u010de nepodr\u00fdvaly z\u00e1klady sv\u00e9 v\u00fdchovy. &#8222;Je rozd\u00edl jestli v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u011b nech\u00e1me d\u00edvat stra\u0161ideln\u00fd film 10let\u00e9 nebo 15-let\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b. Nebo zda ho nech\u00e1me ponocovat v\u00edkendu nebo b\u011bhem pracovn\u00edho t\u00fddne ve\u010der p\u0159ed p\u00edsemkou, &#8222;vysv\u011btluje rozd\u00edly. Ka\u017ed\u00fd rodi\u010d zn\u00e1 nejlep\u0161\u00ed situaci i sv\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b a m\u011bl by um\u011bt odhadnout vhodnou m\u00edru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Kdy v\u00fdjimky nejsou vhodn\u00e9<br>V\u00fdjimky podle odbornice nejsou vhodn\u00e9, pokud d\u00edt\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b proch\u00e1z\u00ed n\u011bjakou v\u011bt\u0161\u00ed \u017eivotn\u00ed zm\u011bnou, na kterou si mus\u00ed p\u0159ivyknout. Nap\u0159\u00edklad pokud se rodi\u010de rozv\u00e1d\u011bj\u00ed, pokud se rodina n\u011bkam p\u0159est\u011bhovala, pokud d\u00edt\u011b pr\u00e1v\u011b nastoupilo do \u0161kolky a podobn\u011b.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-748\" srcset=\"https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-696x1044.jpg 696w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-1068x1602.jpg 1068w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-1920x2880.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-280x420.jpg 280w, https:\/\/stylelife.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/pexels-monstera-7139802-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8222;Tehdy je sp\u00ed\u0161e benefit dr\u017eet se tradice a rutiny, kter\u00e1 d\u011bti ukotvuje, p\u0159\u00ednosem je zachovat co nejv\u00edce star\u00fdch zvyk\u016f a \u010dinnost\u00ed,&#8220; \u0159\u00edk\u00e1 Dana Comas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">P\u0159ipom\u00edn\u00e1 tak\u00e9, \u017ee velmi citliv\u00e9 na v\u00fdjimky jsou mali\u010dk\u00e9 d\u011bti. &#8222;Tady nen\u00ed radno hazardovat s protahov\u00e1n\u00edm \u010dasu sp\u00e1nku nebo j\u00eddla, ani s p\u0159\u00edlivem p\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00fdch pob\u00eddek a programu. Malink\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je je\u0161t\u011b velmi ovlivniteln\u00e9 a z\u00e1visl\u00e9 od napln\u011bn\u00ed pot\u0159eb v dan\u00e9m \u010dase, jeho diskomfort pak \u010dasto ovlivn\u00ed cele okol\u00ed. &#8222;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Velmi opatrn\u011b s v\u00fdjimkami \u0159ad\u00ed i p\u0159i d\u011btech na autistick\u00e9ho spektra, pro ty m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt vybo\u010den\u00ed z rutiny sp\u00ed\u0161e negativn\u00edm z\u00e1\u017eitkem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A\u010dkoliv by ve v\u00fdchov\u011b m\u011bla platit jasn\u00e1 pravidla, jednou za \u010das jejich poru\u0161it v\u016fbec nen\u00ed na \u0161kodu, naopak. Nebojte se ob\u010das dovolit \u0161kol\u00e1kovi d\u00edvat ve\u010der fotbal, koupit mu trojitou zmrzlinu p\u0159ed j\u00eddlem \u010di p\u0159iv\u0159\u00edt o\u010di nad \u0161\u00edlen\u00fdm \u00fa\u010desem va\u0161\u00ed teenagerky. V\u00fdjimky, ale opravdu v\u00fdjime\u010dn\u00e9 a vhodn\u011b na\u010dasovan\u00e9, maj\u00ed sv\u00e9 m\u00edsto. 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